Singlehood... Future?

Lately, I've been thinking a lot about my future. Sometimes its as simple as what I'm going to eat for dinner but other times it's like long-term, future family kind of future. It's a weird thing to think of because I don't feel like I'm at that stage yet. But alas, I am.

I have two general options:
1. Stay single
2. Get married

Those are probably fairly obvious but I've thought about each of those options in depth... one more than the other.

I want kids. I always have. The easiest, most socially acceptable way to do this is option two. My spouse and I will have kids together. Pretty simple. Very common.

One Problem:

I don't have any male prospect. At all. Unless you count the attractive males in Once Upon A Time... But, I don't. So right now, option two looks very unattainable. That's fine. I don't really *need* a male person in my life. Although sometimes, it would be fairly nice to have them!

Option one, however, has been in my mind for a while. In one of my classes this semester we watched a documentary called "Sperm Donor X". The entire time I was watching it I was thinking "oh wow. This could easily be me." Since then, I've been tossing around the idea of being a single parent.

Thankfully, I'm not the only one thinking about that. One of my really good friends told me that he doesn't see himself getting married. However, he wants a child. And he would be one hell of a parent. Any child would be lucky to have him as a father. I'm excited to see what his future bring him in this realm of children.

Him and I have been tossing around the idea of single parenthood. It's an odd thing to think about, but a very realistic thing as well.

If you would have asked me a year ago, I never would have even considered this an option. To me it was married with a child or single without one. I don't want to not have a child. My biggest goal is to have a child. I'm kind of realizing that I might have to go against society and have one on my own, by myself, and that's an okay thing to do.

I tell my friends "If you are happy with this decision, then it is the right choice. It doesn't matter what other people say or think. What matters is your happiness. That's more important than their happiness about your choices."

I'm guilty of not listening to my own advice. I'm starting to listen, though. And if I want to have a child on by own, I'm going to do it because it will make me happy.


That's not for quite a while though. Like, after college. And who knows, I could meet someone by then and go with the traditional route! Which would be completely fine by me!

This type of thinking is odd for me because it is very realistic, very now. But there are options out there to be a single parent and they aren't bad things!

Busy Bee -- This Past Week

I think all professors get together and decide to pick up the pace of class at the same time. Or maybe going to Colorado for the weekend put me a little behind. It's probably both.

First, I need to talk about my Colorado trip. My friend and I went to Commerce City to watch a soccer game. More specifically, Seattle Sounders VS Colorado Rapids... Go Sounders! The Sounders won 4-1 and it was phenomenal! Our seats were right behind the Sounder's bench so I was able to see all of my favorite players up close and personal! ;)

Here are some pictures:

 

These were our seats. :D

 

 

Us before the game!

 

Deandre Yedlin. My favorite. :)

 

Dempsey gave his jersey to this kid after the game. It was adorable!

If you're interested in watching the highlights here's the link: Seattle/Colorado Highlights


The day before the soccer game we hung out with my family. My aunt took us to Canvas and Cocktails. We weren't old enough to drink, but we did paint! I won't post *my* painting because it's terrible. Like, quite literally. I did not get my artistic abilities from my mom...

Here are some of the paintings I adored that were hanging up on the wall:

 

You're in Colorado...so naturally... Go Broncos!

 

This is my favorite. I think this scene is adorable! It's on my to-do list!

 

I thought this was simple and cute!

 

This one made me think of Tangled. Eventually I will see the floating lanterns!

After that craziness we had to drive back to Laramie and go to class the next day. It. was. exhausting. I haven't caught up on sleep because I haven't had the time with class and band.

I had two books to read, a project to do, a quiz, and a test. On top of class and sectionals for band. I feel like I've been running around like crazy all week.

Just because, here is picture from my project. We had to describe are views on children. Which might not seem that difficult but it was. And very. Very. Very. Time consuming. I glued and then melted the crayons on the basket. Inside there were little things that made me think of a word to describe kids. Like a pinwheel was playful. And there were cards that described everything.

Just fyi, crayons don't come off of hardwood that easily.

Now that it's Friday, I have the time to catch up on sleep and get ahead in class! Minus the few hours I have to give to band on Saturday and for my group project on Sunday... BUT! I plan on being a homebody the rest of the time! Which, I am very good at. :D Hopefully it is a productive weekend!